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About Our Workshops
Our workshops are an opportunity to get clear about what matters to you, what you want, who your child is, and what they need and to clear out the noise (fear, fantasy) that scrambles the message for your child. This process will enable you to:
Show up.
Honestly and authentically. Feel clear, aligned, respectful and resonant. For yourself and for your child.
Find your anchor.
Your superpower, your kryptonite in the face of POTS (points of tension): toddler tantrums, playground squabbles, sibling spats, power struggles, unsolicited advice, holidays with the in-laws, judgement, inner critics, self-abandonment.
Be their mirror.
You are your child’s first mirror. Reflected in your eyes, your words, and your actions is how they see themselves, the world, and their place in it.
It’s not easy, but it is simple.
Summer Sessions
+
Virtual
Workshops
75 minute sessions are $25 per person.
2.5 hour virtual workshops are $85 per person.
All sessions + workshops held on Zoom.
Summer Sessions
Session One: Removing Fear + Fantasy From Parenting
Tuesday, July 14, 8:15-9:30PM
Session Two: Social Emotional Development in Crisis
Tuesday, July 21, 8:15-9:30PM
Session Three: Staying Connected in Disequilibrium
Tuesday, July 28, 8:15-9:30PM
Session Four: Parenting from Your Values + Remaining Hopeful
Tuesday, August 1, 8:15-9:30PM
Virtual Workshops
Talk the Talk, Walk the Walk
“Talk the Talk, Walk the Walk” is structured around values based communication for parents of young children.
Learn to communicate and respond from your values, goals, and the facts of who you are, who your child is, and how you want them to see themselves.
This workshop will give you the tools for your own personal communication audit.
We’ll guide you through making your values visible in your interactions, your choices, and even your environment.
Co-led by expert facilitators Abby and Darcy from 9:00am-11:30am
Held over Zoom
Upcoming workshop: July 18
Keep it Real
“Keep it Real: Removing Fear and Fantasy from Parenting” will help you to remove the obstacles from your parenting.
Deep dive into ‘The Dirty Dozen’ framework that helps you to recognize, identify, and understand common pitfalls in your parenting.
Gain tools for reflection, action, and practice removing ‘The Dirty Dozen” from your parenting.
Replace parenting pitfalls with R.E.A.L (Responsive, Engaged, Attuned, Loving) strategies.
Co-led by expert facilitators Abby and Darcy from 9:00am-11:30am
Held over Zoom
Upcoming workshop: August 1st
Workshop Goals
Before the Workshop
You find yourself stuck, trapped, helpless, frustrated and unable to find the right words or responses in challenging parenting moments.
Fears (and fantasies/illusions) about who your child is or is becoming, about what kind of parent you are or appear to be, and about what the pain in the moment itself means for the bigger picture leave you hurtling towards a version of a parent you didn’t set out to be.
You are overwhelmed by the messages, judgment, pressure, and even well-meaning guidance that you take in as a parent.
You crave a simple, clear and practical approach, aligned with you are and who your child is, that is actionable in moments big and small, challenging and easy.
When you hit those points of tension, you feel small and alone. In truth, your experience is universal.
After the Workshop
Remove fear and fantasy from your parenting and instead raise children with respect and dignity.
Get clear about what actually matters to you so you can show up reliably and consistently for your children.
Gain the tools to do your own personal communication audit so that you can make your values visible in your interactions, choices, and environment.
Find perspective, reframe challenging situations, calibrate your expectations (of your child and yourself), and understand and manage your triggers.
You are able to respond instead of react, have increased self-compassion, and are armed with practical and reliable resources for daily life as a parent.
What People Are Saying
“Adopting a tool kit that is universally applicable regardless of the specific values of each participant wants to parent to has fundamentally changed the way I interact with my children.”
—Workshop Participant
“The journey Darcy and Abby took me on has led as much to introspection as it has allowed me to become a better parent.”
—Dan, Parent of a 9 Month Old and 2 1/2 Year Old
“Darcy and Abby work with you to develop concrete strategies for ensuring that your interactions with your little person actually reflect your values and goals—focusing especially on those challenging moments when we so often feel we are ‘failing’ as parents.”
—Workshop Participant
FAQs
For whom are these workshops designed?
In their current iteration, our workshops are designed for and tailored to parents of children from infancy through early elementary ages (0-8yrs).
Do you offer workshops for parents with older kids?
In the works. Please let us know if you would be interested in learning more, as we are currently developing offerings for parents of elementary, middle, and high school aged children.
Why the one day format?
Originally offered as a four evening long workshop series, we decided to redesign and reformat the content into two separate full day workshops. We have found, as both facilitators and attendees of workshops, that the experience is more immersive, transformative, and impactful when people set aside a full day to step away from the minutiae of daily life and give one’s undivided attention and intention to this important work. Retention, comprehension, and takeaways from the content improves in this model as well.
How do I know which workshop is for me?
We designed these two workshops to be taken together, separately, and in any order. We wanted to give people different entry points to our work, from both a scheduling and content perspective. We suggest you read about the focus and topics of each workshop and see which one feels more urgent or relevant for you at this time. Taken together, you walk away with clarity around your values, how to communicate those values to your children, and how to avoid falling prey to the pitfalls that get in the way of doing so. The two workshops are complementary and overlap (in terms of vocabulary and concepts we use throughout all of our work/offerings), but are not redundant in any way.
Do people sign up for both workshops?
Yes. Not only are the two workshops complementary and connected in terms of content, but a discount is available for those who register for both workshops.
What is your training?
We bring a combined 50+ years as educators, 40+ years as coaches, and 30+ years as parents to our partnership. As educators, our areas and ages of expertise run the gamut from infant through college aged children. Using our multifaceted backgrounds and areas of expertise, we guide and support parents both in their roles as parents as well as in other facets of their lives.
Are you parents yourselves?
We are. Darcy to a 28 year old daughter and Abby to a 6 year old son.
What ages do you have experience teaching?
All of them! Darcy has experience teaching early childhood, early elementary, and college aged students. Abby has experience teaching older elementary, middle school and high school students.
What type of clients come to you for coaching?
Parents, couples, families, teenagers, individual mothers and fathers, teachers and leaders in the field of ECE.
Where else can I find you or see your work?
Cow Hollow School, Collaboratory, Abby Sommerfeld Coaching, Entrepreneurial Mothers Circle, MOTHER Mag, Mom Rage Episode 73.
Additional Offerings
Bespoke Gatherings
We design intimate, customized, private gatherings to be held among friends in one’s home or in another space of one’s choosing. Past formats have included salon, roundtable, and focused Q + A on topics ranging from toddlerhood to teenagers. We work with you to tailor the structure and content of the event to the needs, goals, and interests of your group. Inquire for more inspiration and details about these custom gatherings.